11.12.20 Dump

Describe a problem in your life that sometimes seems unsolvable:

I like to think that I don't get stressed....but I mean who doesn't. For me, I don't really stress about getting assignments done; I never really do assignments last minute because I TRAINED myself to just finish my work the day it gets assigned. I've noticed that I stress more over the IMPENDING DOOM THAT LOOMS OVER ME about all the work I have to get done. Looking at it as a whole, things seem really imtimidating and overwhelming. In the end though, I always punch the air because my tasks were just simple things that I had to break up over time.

As for problems that seem unsolvable... sometimes I feel that way for design/art projects. Oh, or sometimes, when it's me trying to figure out my own feelings, or trying to cheer someone up... or re-build relationships...

Oh off topic, but this reminds me of how track taught me how no matter how much I feel like I am dying (from the workouts), in the end I will always recover and it will be fine. I think that's where part of my "in the end it works out" mindset comes from.

Imagine a friend described the same problem to you. Is it still unsolvable? What advice would you give them?

OH WHOA got me off guard there..... hm.... I haven't thought about it like that.

I guess I will always think of a way to help, but also it depends on if they will go through with it/ actually act on it. Kinda upsetti spaghetti but I feel like my advice is really general....and I guess more like commands.... I try my best to give suggestions most of the time to guide them. I feel like it depends on what their problem is. For instance, if they aren't sure if they like someone or how to talk someone, I would ask questions of if they know the person well, or try to make them dig deeper into the WHY.

Describe your circle of friends.

N- energy, emotional, I can look at her and we will both laugh, same brain waves, works hard, leader, takes initiative, procrastinates, will always be there for you- gives advice, listens well, really picky (food wise), entertaining, talks to her cats, has road rage,

R- will always listen to you, real- she will be honest, same brain waves, loves animals, serious when competing (running races), affectionate, funny, deep convos, tries new things although hesitant at first, stares @people if they stare at her

P- listens well and gives advice, honest, generous, overthinks but just needs to be reassured, thoughtful, energy=yes, meme lord, hair amazing, looks out for you, makes you feel appreciated

G- HE GETS MEEEEEEE, good at giving advice and encouragement, can beat himself up sometimes, so clever and funny, chess king, fashion king with the best earrings, generous, kind, memory like a dictionary but also a goldfish, patient

G-conversation king, reminds me of JOJO from Horton hears a Who, actually really funny, likes cats, positive chill guy; never met anyone like him, was quiet but he's not actually if you get to know him, kind

C- loves food (asian cuisine), nice clothes, fights, jokes are a hit or miss (for me) cuz they will be jokes that might bring others down, works hard when he does, jumps high for basketball, shoe lover, has phases of hobbies (rapping, snowboarding, etc),

L- actual cinnamon roll, kind, likes his hair, works out a lot, will have a convo with you, laughter is contagious, jokes are amazing, will keep you company, super chill with people,

C- cool dancer, avoids questions, encouraging, keeps things to himself, listens well, peer pressure king, enigma, wholesome sibling,

Admit it. You think you are the most likable one in the bunch, don’t you?

Nah.

We all have positive qualities and bad qualities, and in no way am I going to think I am the most likable. Everyone is equally likable and how they are perceived is different to other people. As much as I have been growing to accept myself and not to bring myself down, I feel like I am a handful of a friend to have bHAHAHA. I can get frustrated easily, I'm emotional, super indecisive, and sometimes obsessive. I know I have good traits too don't worry. Nice to reflect on this though.